How To Attract The Gemini Man

The Gemini Man is one of the most charming, intelligent and exciting men of the zodiac. If you're planning on successfully attracting a Gemini male, then here are the secrets on how to win this man’s love.

 

 

1. Intelligent conversations and mental stimulation

 

The Gemini man being an air sign is first and foremost a thinker. His mind works at such lightning speeds that he is in constant need of mental stimulation. To be with a Gemini man you must therefore be an intelligent woman yourself who is knowledgeable about many different things – because he is. You’ll have to be able to converse about such diverse topics as movies, current events, music, sports, literature, philosphy, technology and travel. And if you happen to be an expert on a particular subject, that’s all the better. Because he himself usually only has superficial knowledge on many things being the “jack-of-all-trades, master-of-none” kind of guy that he is, he’ll love it if you can show him that you have an in-depth knowledge in one particular field. If you can teach him some new things in this area of expertise of yours, he’ll love you for it.

 

Besides intelligent conversations you can keep him mentally stimulated by engaging him in all sorts of fun cerebral activities like playing chess with him or trying to beat him at Trivial Pursuit. Let this be a warning to you though that you just might lose because this man is a walking encyclopedia of useless trivia. He is truly a “gatherer of knowledge”. And he will love nothing more than communicating this knowlegde to you, so just let him.

 

If you can continually provide him with both intelligent conversations and cerebral activities you’ll keep his interest - and eventually win his heart.  

 

 

2. Novelty and variety

 

If you want to attract your Gemini guy then novelty and variety when dating him are the keys to success. He is ruled by the planet Mercury making him a fast thinker and “doer”. So dating him requires a female who is likewise an active and creative spirit. Some great date ideas when going out with your Gemini man include lectures, art exhibitions, poetry readings, the latest blockbuster movies, as well as, rock climbing, sports events, surfing, playing any sports that he may be interested in, go-carting, riding dirt bikes, bungee-jumping or sky-diving. Yes, life with this male is definitely not dull, that’s for sure. You can also take him to the brand new fusion-cuisine restaurant that just opened this week, the theatre, parties, different social gatherings or even a spontaneous weekend trip to who-knows-where.

 

If you can keep his mind, as well as, his body actively engaged with new and exciting things, he will adore you for it. The Gemini male is naturally curious about all things and at the same time in constant need of change and diversity, so giving him what he needs, that is, novelty and variety, at all times is the way to this man’s heart.

 

You, yourself, will have to be spontaneous, outgoing and fun-loving to be able to keep up with him – for he himself will always come up with new, exciting things to do with you when you are dating. And always be ready to change your plans at a moment’s notice because Gemini will come up with ideas on the fly – and he loves a woman who will go with the flow and come along for the ride. If you think this kind of romantic love life is exciting, then you’ve definitely met the perfect match.

 

 

3. Freedom and space

 

One of the most important aspects of dating a Gemini man is giving him space. He is extremely independent and loves to experience everything that life has to offer without feeling tied down. He wants to think and act freely. Therefore he wants to be with a woman who is just as independent and freedom-loving as he is. She will have to be someone who has her own interests, friends and activities – so that when he is off on one of his Gemini adventures, you’ll be off, as well, on one of your own. Then when the two of you meet up again, you’ll both have exciting new stories to tell each other (mental stimulation, remember!) and still have given each other the space and freedom to live life to its fullest.

 

The woman who understands this and is willing to give him his freedom and space, that he needs so as a Gemini man, will win his heart. The old saying “If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was”, truly applies when it comes to the Gemini man. If you set him free, and he keeps coming back, he’s yours. 

The Gemini Man

CHARACTER TRAITS

 

The Gemini man is a lively, intelligent and charming male that undoubtedly catches your attention almost instantly. He has a youthful appearance no matter what his age seems to be and a magnetic sex appeal that will draw you to him. The Gemini man is an Air sign meaning that he is ruled by the mind. The motto for a Gemini man is “I think.” He is intelligent, curious, witty, and these men are highly knowledgeable on most subjects – be it films, music, politics, sports or literature – the Gemini man knows a little  bit about everything. They are truly great conversationalists, as they always have interesting things to say. And these men love to talk mind you, for they are ruled by the Third House which is the house of Communication. These men are the definitive communicators of the Zodiac. Their minds are constantly working at lightning speeds so speech to them becomes a way of anchoring their thoughts into the physical world.

 

This sign is ruled by the planet Mercury meaning that the Gemini is a fast thinker and “doer”. He is continually on the go both physically and mentally, making him an energetic and active male in both mind and body. The Gemini man needs constant mental stimulation being an air sign. To accommodate this inherent need in his astrological nature he constantly seeks out new things, new places, new people and new ideas and experiences to quench his thirst for knowledge and insight. The Gemini man therefore loves novelty and variety. These men love to sample a bit of everything in life, and the mercurial winds beneath their wings will always keep them on the go, forever moving, forever searching. This character trait can sometimes manifest itself as restlessness, at other times as spontaneity and adventurous nature.

 

This, however, falls right in place with the Geminian personality which is the epitome of duality. The Gemini’s symbol are in actuality The Twins and they represent the two opposing sides of the world – the light and the dark, the good and the bad, the ying and the yang…  And the Gemini man’s own personality rings true to this, as he too switches between the good and the bad, one moment being extroverted, lively and charming, and the next becoming introverted, dark and brooding. Their moods often change. Living with a Gemini is like living with 2 different people. Sometimes even 3 or 4 different people. But one must understand that this is an inherent trait in their personality. While some people might have fixed viewpoints on specific topics, the Gemini can always see an argument from both sides – and often both at the same time. This appears however not as a contradiction to the Gemini, as the Gemini is the one sign who truly understands how to house two dueling, opposite viewpoints and accepts this very naturally.

 

Gemini men are highly adaptable to say the least. They are a mutable sign meaning that they adapt very well to change. This is also one of the reasons why they thrive on variety and new experiences. Adapting to new situations and new locations comes with the greatest of ease to this astrological sign. They thoroughly enjoy it.

 

But their love for the new and untried can often make these men very impatient and they have a tendency to get bored very easily. If they are bored with something, they will not hesitate to move on. This poses a problem at the work  place because Geminians don’t have the patience or resolve to see projects through to the end unless what they are working on really interests them. If it does then they will produce brilliant work at lightning speeds, as they are highly intelligent individuals who think and act fast. If they, however, are not interested in the task at hand then they will procrastinate - and if they can get away with it (and many times they actually can, thanks to their silver tongue) they might even abandon the project entirely, in favor of new and more exciting things to delve into. The Gemini may have to find a job where he gets to do creative and intellectually stimulating work, while leaving the grind labor to his minions.

 

 

 

Born: May 21 – June 20

Symbol: The Twins

Element: Air

Ruling Planets: Mercury

Quality: Mutable

Ruling House: Third

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

THE GEMINI MAN IN LOVE

 

The Gemini man is flirtatious with a sharp wit, charm and intelligence that will have you mesmerized upon your first meeting. You will immediately be attracted to this male because of his outgoing nature, good conversation skills and zest for life.

 

When talking to him you get the feeling that he genuinely wants to get to know you, which is true. Gemini men will ask you plenty of questions when you first meet them because they have a sincere need to know more about you which is due to their inherent curiosity in their nature. They love meeting new people and learning new things.

 

The Gemini man’s love for novelty, however, coupled with his inherent tendency to get bored very easily and quickly move on if something no longer interests him often poses a major problem in his love relationships.

 

For the Gemini man is the ultimate commitment-phobe of the Zodiac. It is very hard to pin a Gemini man down and get him to stay in one place (with you!) because he simply doesn’t like being stagnant. He wants to keep moving, keep going, keep experiencing new places, new things and new people(!). Just when you have fallen under his spell-binding good looks and irresistable charms, you’ll find that he has moved on.

 

There are however a few ways to attract the Gemini man and keep his interest in the long run. First, and foremost you have to keep him intellectually interested in you. For the Gemini falls in love with his mind first and then his heart. He finds himself therefore attracted to women who can stimulate him mentally and who are intelligent, articulate, fast-paced talkers and thinkers like himself. The woman who wins his heart will have to win him through his mind.

 

 

Since the Gemini man loves variety and experiencing new things he adores women who loves theses things too. Be prepared to change your plans at a moment’s notice as these Twins are notoriously indecisive. He may suddenly decide to do a 180° turn – and plans that started out as just dinner at a restaurant, suddenly becomes a trip to the casino then driving down the coastline to go night swimming at the beach. If you’re planning on attracting a Gemini and keeping him, then you’ll have to be a woman who enjoys his spontaneous whims as much as he does. Some women may find this kind of life tiring, others will find it exciting. But one thing’s for certain, you’ll never find yourself bored in the company of a Gemini man.

 

An important part of having a romantic relationship with a Gemini man is to let him have his space. He needs the freedom and space to delve into many other different things – be it various books he’s readings, news and current events that he’s keeping himself up-to-date on, hobbies, friends, new aquaintances, movies, music – aside from you. If you’re expecting your Gemini man to make you the center of his world once you are together in a relationship or be a passionate whirlwind lover for you, then you’re better off with an Aries. The Gemini man is more of a friend and confidant than he is a passionate Romeo lover. He is cool, aloof, detached and objective – but also sweet, affectionate and caring – but then also dark, mean-spirited and brooding. Remember the Gemini multiple personalities. So his lover must above all be patient, especially, if she prefers one “Twin” (one side of his personality) to the other(-s). Love him for all his good traits as well as his bad, and he will truly feel safe and secure and loved by you – meaning he will stay. He might jet off now and then on one of his many new Gemini adventures but if you provide a loving place for him to come home to, then he’ll keep coming back.

 

If  he does, then you will be one of the very few women in this man’s lifetime, with whom he has gotten into a close romantic relationship with. You are already in a very special place with him.

 

Keep things exciting, give him space, accept his good and his bad sides and give him the intellectual stimulation he needs, then you will win this man’s love.

 

BODY PARTS

The body parts ruled by Gemini are the lungs, nerves, nervous system, hands, shoulders, arms and fingers.

 

 

LOVE COMPATIBILITY

 

In love relationships the Gemini man is most compatible with these astrological signs:

LIBRA, AQUARIUS, GEMINI, LEO, ARIES.

 

In love relationships the Gemini man is least compatible with these astrological signs:

SCORPIO, CAPRICORN, VIRGO, TAURUS, CANCER, PISCES.

 

 

FAMOUS GEMINI MEN

 

Bob Dylan, John F. Kennedy, Walt Whitman, Bob Hope, Michael J. Fox, Henry Kissinger, Dean Martin, Donald Trump, John Wayne, Lionel Richie, Thomas Mann, Erroll Flynn, Richard Wagner, Morgan Freeman, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, Paul McCartney.